Dinner at Meso Mediterranean Restaurant at Santana Row with Friends

"Ocean hues and vast archways are always transportive. The large, two-room space features a wide bar with beautiful backlit bottles, tile work and sleek, modern touches.”

—Amber Turpin, The Mercury News

Santana Row in San Jose is a Food Lover’s Fantasy. Cecile and I had a Middle Eastern-style feast at Meso with dear friends, Nelson and Susan Bye who recently returned from a family trip in Costa Rica. This was our second time at the up-scale modern Mediterranean Restaurant. The exotic tapas-style servings did not disappoint, nor did the decor. Meso, which means “middle,” transports you with its’ calming, blue Mediterranean sky and sea that I remember from our travels. There is a bluish-purple lighted fountain in the spacious dining room.

We began our gastronomic adventure by ordering a trio of dips: Hummus, smoked eggplant, red beet, labneh, and house-made pita bread. Cecile and I brought a bottle of Rombauer Chardonnay for the table. We also ordered Meso’s featured Spice Lamb Flatbread with yogurt, sumac onions, spicy zhoug, oven roasted tomato and sprouts, Crispy Brussels Sprouts with a scallion and feta dip; Charred Eggplant and Salata Hara with red pepper, pomegranate, pistachio and serrano; and a bowl of roasted carrots and cucumbers. We were sufficiently sated all for an average price of $70 per couple and this included the corkage charge for the wine. We decided to pass on the dessert and hit the Dairy Queen for soft serve ice cream before heading home.

Postscript: The Mediterranean menu was designed by chef-partner Roland Passot and executive chef Gregory who spent years working at the French Laundry in Napa before taking the helm of Masa’s in San Francisco. They have a large outdoor front patio and there is a large outdoor Frog Garden that serves as a meeting place for any visitors to Santana Row.

Update: "Jerseys" from NJ Jersey for Joyful Kenya Students: In Loving Memory of My Late Niece Selina

Special Report

By Dr. Dennis Augustine

“May the gentle winds of the heavenly realm blow softly and whisper in your ear, how much we love and miss you and wish that you were here.”

—The McAllister & Augustine Family

Jambo, Jambo, everyone! As a reminder, my brother-in-law Joe and family founded the Selina McAllister Computer School, in memory of my late niece and goddaughter, Selena. She left us last December 28, at the age of 40, the same day her beloved daughter Zaila turned 13.

Today marked the second shipment of “jerseys" from New Jersey to arrive at the Masogo School in Kenya thanks to the generosity of my nephew Jake McAllister’s childhood friend Justin Stallard and his point man Jack who helped to make it possible. The first shipment also included blue, green, yellow and black jerseys, boots, socks, matching shorts, goal posts and soccer balls and nets. Today, Noel Olweny, the community leader of the Masogo School and member of the County Assembly joyfully announced that he was in receipt of 60 high quality black and white Addidas Jersey tops.

Noel, seen in many of the attached photos informed the school projects committee. As a result special arrangements are being made for the school fraternity to officially welcome the “jerseys” and schedule a friendly soccer match with another school after Spring break to coincide with a “Boom Day Celebration.” To that end, Joe, the main benefactor of the school and community and Noel’s mentor graciously donated $1,000 for food and drinks for students, teachers, staff and aides. Of course, always by his side, is Noel's Mama, the matriarch of the family who expressed her joy and gave her blessings to all concerned.

We met Noel at the Kenya Safari Club in 2006. The following year Joe took Selina to Kenya, and years later he decided to fund Noel's post-graduate education in Land management. They have remained good friends ever since. Last March, Cecile and I decided to support Joe and his family by contributing a $1,000 to the Masogo school in Selina’s memory.

Postscript: Earlier in the month, Noel proudly anounced that his daughter Serena (wearing spectacles in the photos), accompanied him for the end-term school holidays which brought him even greater joy, as she witnessed what he described as “the noble act of beautiful people.” Serena's response was, “I love our friends in the USA.” As Serena entered the Selena McAllister Computer Classroom, and saw framed photos of her prominently and respectfully displayed on the walls of the classroom and her grandmother's home, she couldn’t hold back her tears.

Noel ended his email with the words “Asante sana rafiki, mango awabariki,” which translated from Swahili means:

Thank you, my friend, God Bless you!

Earth Day 2024: This Giant Plastic Tap Art Installation in Front of Ripley's Aquarium in Toronto was a Real Eye-Opener

While in Toronto in May of 2022, for our Great Lakes Cruise, Cecile and I, and our friends Nelson and Susan Bye, decided to visit Ripley’s Aquarium of Canada in the heart of downtown Toronto, which we had read was a must-see tourist attraction.

What caught my attention was a three-story-tall giant plastic tap art installation by celebrated artist and activist Benjamin Von Wong, that was spewing single-use plastic waste all over the entrance of the aquarium (see my photo). It is a symbol of the global plastic pollution crisis. Since 1950s global plastic production and consumption has grown exponentially. It is expected to increase by 70% by 2040 if changes aren’t made.

This plastic art installation was also featured at the United Nations headquarters in Nairobi, Kenya. As Earth Day 2024 puts a spotlight on the world’s climate crisis, negotiators from 175 countries are gathering for the fourth round of the United Nations Plastic Treaty negotiations this week in Canada, to draft a global, legally binding agreement by the end of the year.

It took awhile, but this exhibit had a profound effect on my using single-use plastic water bottles during the day and on my daily bike rides. I have cut my usage by over 95%. Like most people I thought we were doing our share by recycling, only to realize that wasn’t addressing the root of the problem.

Postscript: Some of the health problems associated with plastics include respiratory problems, asthma, diabetes, reproductive and hormone issues, obesity, cancer, and heart disease, and microscopic plastic particles are showing up in our bodies.

#TurnOffThePlasticTap

Dinner at lL Fornaio & an Evening with Comedian Bill Maher: The WTF? Tour

Before going to see Bill Maher at the San Jose Center for the Performing Arts, Cecile, our son Jason, and I enjoyed a fabulous, leisurely, early dinner at IL Fornaio Cucina Italiano located in the luxurious Sainte Claire in downtown San Jose. For starters we shared Piatto Di Salumi (an antipasto platter) with fresh oven backed bread.

Cecile had a delicious Casarecce Alla Norcina pasta with morsels of chicken breast, white truffle oil, porcini & champignon mushrooms; Jason feasted on Linguine Mare Chiaro: with clams, mussels, prawns & scallops, and I had Grilled Norwegian salmon with lemon & extra-virgin olive oil; served with sautéed spinach & roasted Yukon gold potatoes along with a glass of Chalk Hill Chardonnay from the Sonoma Coast. For dessert Jason had his favorite Affogato AL Caffe (espresso poured over two scoops of vanilla gelato & topped with fresh whipped cream and Cecile and I shared a strawberry sorbet).

After dinner we spent an evening with stand up comedian and political commentator Bill Maher: The WTF? Maher is known for his sharp wit, biting humor, and fearless approach to controversial topics on "Real time with Bill Maher" on HBO. Cecile and I, and Jason have been a fans of my fellow New Jerseyite since his first show "Politically Incorrect,” in the early 1990s.

Maher is a staunch advocate for free speech, and enjoys sparking heated debates that challenge societal norms with individuals from different political ideologies. He is skilled at balancing humor and serious content. He doesn’t shy away from critizing Democrats as well as Rebulicans when its called for. While I don’t agree with everything he says, I believe in a lot of what he has to say, and he makes me laugh in the process.

Celebrating Bill's Belated Birthday with Lunch at San Pedro Square Market in San Jose

There always something a little funny about a person who’s birthday falls on April 15, the dreaded Tax Collection Day like Bill’s does. Birthday or not, we are all in the same boat. As comedian Conan O’Brien once joked, “Just taught my kids about taxes by eating 38% of their ice cream.”

We decided to have lunch at San Pedro Square Market in Downtown San Jose. We took a short cut by riding our bikes on the Los Gatos Creek Trail, and then hopping on the Three Creek Trail near downtown Willow Glen, allowing us to avoid off-trail car traffic.

The ride was pretty uneventful until we we reached San Jose’s Plaza de Caesar Chavez Square where the United Service Workers West (USWW) under the banner of "Justice for Janitors" who were threatening a three-day strike. USWW is America’s largest union of immigrant property services workers. Across California alone, there are more than 25,000 janitors seeking better jobs and wages, access to quality health care, and a crackdown of reported sexual and other physical abuse in the workplace.

A welcome diversion to the loud voices amplified by raspy microphones, was the iconic fountain of geysers that has sprung back to life after two years of being dormant during the COVID-19 pandemic.

We finally made it to the large San Pedro Square street Arch that leads to the market where I ordered Bill and I fresh Vietnamese Chicken salads from “On a Roll” restaurant before heading home.

The Enchanting World of Bike Riding During Sunset with Fiery Cloud Formations

“Riding through the golden hues of a sunset, every stroke of the pedal is a moment of pure bliss."

Night riding adds another layer of enchantment and mystery to the sport. Witnessing the magical hues of the evening sunset painting the sky with clouds forming intricate patterns overhead holds its own charm and allure. Riding the Creek trails with no cars to worry about, makes it an extraordinary sensory experience that is hidden to daytime riders. The air is cooler, the city noises are subdued and there are less pedestrians and dog walkers out and about that brings about a nuanced sense of serenity.

One would think that riding during early evening or twilight is isolating and lonely, but there are always a few of us sharing the secret of the night and it helps when you enjoy your own company to boot. The mysterious darkness amplifies the sense of adventure and thrill of exploration, creating a captivating experience all of its own. For safety, I always wear a helmet and I have a powerful headlight that illuminates the trail in front of me, and an attention grabbing red taillight and I usually make it home before it gets pitch black. Even when the sun goes below the horizon line, there is always enough natural light in the sky to see the city bike lanes we are blessed to have here in bike-friendly California to make it back home safely.

A 20-Mile Bike Ride on the Ford Ord National Monument Trails Located on the Monterey Bay

Bill and I followed our biking buddies Jimi and Jennifer Hunter from Los Gatos, CA to Marina State Beach, and exited the Reservation Road off Highway One for a brief rest stop. This part of the beach is called Shark Bar Point where I used to take hang-gliding lessons over the sand dunes back in the 80s.

We then continued on to Fort Ord where we hooked up with six more of Jimi and Jen’s long-time friends, making us a ten person pelaton-esque group psyched with anticipation of riding on this mild sunny day. Fort Ord, once the Jewel of The United States Army is located on Monterey Bay on the Pacific Ocean. It was originally established as a military installation in 1917. Its military operations ceased in the early 1990s.

Ford Ord National Monument offers breathtaking biking trails. The landscape boasts rolling hills, many steep inclines reaching elevations of over 2,000 feet and exhilarating descents approaching speeds of over 30 mph. Cyclists can enjoy winding paths that traverse through oak woodlands, and hidden caves and circles around the Laguna Seca Raceway. Whether you’re seeking a leisurely stroll or an adrenaline-pumping bike ride, Ford Ord National Monument offers unparalleled beauty and adventure for outdoor enthusiasts.

We ended our day with a late, delicious leisurely lunch at Las Cazuelas Taqueria in Marina, and bid our interesting a affable crew farewell.

Postscript: Ford Ord underwent a transformation in 2012, when President Obama designated a portion of the former military base as Fort Ord National Monument, preserving over 14,000 acres of land for public use and conservation.

Sunday Family Brunch at Jack's & Baby August's Loving Soulful Gaze & Smiles

"Grandchildren are the dots that connect the lines from generation to generation.”—Lois Wise

“Perfect love sometimes does not come until grandchildren are born.”—Welsh Proverb

Cecile and I arrived at Jack’s kid-friendly restaurant first, to secure a table. Shortly after, Michelle, Kyle, Lyla, Emmy and baby August arrived. I stood up and motioned with my hand where we were, and the girls joyfully ran across the room to greet us. Emmy ran into my arms and I lifted her up into the air and Lyla ran to Nonnie Cecile. You can’t beat that kind of welcoming. August was sleeping in his stroller but just about after we ordered brunch he made his presence known.

We’ve all been told that staring is rude, but as any parent and grandparent will tell you when babies stare at you, it’s downright adorable. Of course as parents, Michelle and Kyle’s loving attention to all of August’s needs has taught him that the world is a safe place, such is the gift of innocence. Newborns love to look at faces and by this time in his development, baby August has perfected the "soulful gaze." Add the soulful grin, and gentle, warm, snuggle, and it becomes a truly magical moment that warms your heart.

And yes, August is talking too. Sort of. It’s those wonderful earliest coos and grunts that are first directed at the parents and then other trusted caregivers in the family as a way of saying, I love you too.

Celebrating the Most Festive & Joyful Gender Reveal Baby Shower: Congrats to Sphoorti & Aniket

When the invitation to a baby shower and gender reveal party arrived, it was an offer Cecile and I couldn’t refuse. Our gracious neighbors and friends, Sphoorti and Aniket are getting ready to welcome baby number two, and we were invited on their behalf by their beloved hosts, Shrishti and husband Jammu to get ready for an "unforgettable celebration to shower the mommy-to-be (Sphoorti) with love and blessings." Well, the organizing culinary wizards (Ray & Mike) who also arranged for the colorful decorations at Rinconada Hills didn’t disappoint. The inside and outside tented event that took place on Sunday was indeed a magical afternoon bursting with joy and we felt honored to be invited. We were serenaded by the enchanting tunes of a band called “Radio Gatsby,” while sipping our mimosas, wine and beer enjoying delectable savory Indian and Mediterranean appetizers that were later followed by a buffet-style spread of delicious Indian cuisine with naan bread.

Other highlights were when Sphoorti and Aniket made their entrance as they danced to the music, advancing to the front of the room and welcoming all their guests and family for attending the event. This is a couple who are kind and thoughtful, generous, and comfortable being in the spotlight with the people they love. After dessert, many of us watched the band leader coax the children to come up front to dance to Uptown Funk by Bruno Mars. At first a little timid, they overcame their shyness, and the band leader had them repeat some of the catchy lyrics.

An announcement was made by the band leader that the Gender Reveal was about to take place outdoors. You could feel the excitement and anticipation building. The Gender Reveal Cannon launchers took their positions on the side of a big green lawn that guests were standing on. The countdown began 10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1 and the explosion of blue powdered confetti that filled the air made it official: “It’s a boy!”

Postscript (2 short video clips at the end of the photo gallery).

Congratulations Sphoorti, Aniket and your first born Veer! He is going to love having a baby bro. Thank you for including us!

Peace, Love, and Blessings,

Dennis and Cecile Augustine

Happy Easter From Carmel to Friends & Family However You May Celebrate It

“Easter is meant to be a symbol of hope, renewal and new life.”—Janine di Giovanni

While Cecile and I were sitting in Devendorf Park in Carmel, a charming rest stop after browsing the several blocks of shops on Ocean Avenue, there was a couple with their little daughter holding her Easter basket, humming and skipping in front of them. I was feeling nostalgic for the holiday of my youth.

Having been born a Catholic and having attended Catholic schools, though not very observant as a religious holiday, I was taught Easter is the celebration of the resurrection of Christ following his crucifixion. That said, many Easter traditions are purely secular and not found in the Bible. I still remember my first Easter basket and easter eggs, oval shaped jelly beans that resemble an egg, marshmallow-flavored chicks, and chocolate bunny rabbits. The Easter bunny, was reportedly introduced to America by German Immigrants. They brought their stories of the egg-laying hare. Decorating eggs dates back to the 13 th century and the Easter parade dates back further. Easter candy are more modern additions of this springtime holiday.

Though my wife isn’t a Christian we use to help our children color/dyed the egg shells of boiled eggs. That tradition has carried on at our daughter Michelle’s in-laws who are of the Christian faith. Our son-in-law Kyle often dresses up as an Easter bunny as does his step-dad Al. The girls love Easter egg hunts. The jelly bean, oval shaped like an egg that comes in different colors, became associated with Easter in the 1930s was called a Turkish Delight in the Biblical era.

The Easter Day Parade dates back to the middle 1800s. In fact in 1948, the popular film “Easter Parade” starring Judy Garland and Fred Astaire. Women would go to church sporting their decorated easter bonnets and hats. Easter Lilies represent the purity of Christ and the dormant bulbs in the ground symbolize the rebirth of Christ’s resurrection.

Postscript: Many of the photos were taken in Carmel and some images I have archived on my laptop, and still others with, or of, people we met, and were wearing rabbit ears.

We Attended 117 Days in Gaza: A Firsthand Account from the Front Lines by Yonatan Haber at Chabad Almaden

"If Israel were to rest the security of the Jewish State on international approval, there would be no Israel. Choose security over popularity!”

—Congressman Ritchie Torres

A Special Report by Dr. Dennis Augustine

Yonathan Haber, 23, is a member of the 55th Paratroopers Brigade on the Israeli Defenses Forces (IDF). He spent 60 days in the Gaza strip, one of two Palestinian territories on the eastern coast of the Mediterranean Sea. On that fateful day of the October 7 massacre, this young man who has lived near the Gaza border for years, found himself battling Hamas terrorists with his team after receiving news of the attacks from his superiors on Telegram Messenger and WhatsApp. The 23-year old Israeli Defense Force (IDF) reservist who returned to service after the vicious and deadly attacks by Hamas, was invited by our friend, Rabbi Mendel Weinfeld, the CEO of Chabad House Almaden in South San Jose to share his front-line war experience with over 40 attendees including Cecile and I at 7:30 PM last evening.

Yonatan and his team arrived in a village next to the Gaza border to rescue families and dogs and bring them to a place of safety. He confirmed what had been reported in international news outlets around the world: beheaded corpses, babies placed in ovens, torture, rapes, scores of dead bodies, burned homes, weapons used by Hamas, including rocket-propelled grenades, evidence of kidnapped hostages from the village resulting from systematic house-to-house searches using maps provided by traitors of the Israeli residents noting where everything was. For two hours Yonathan had our undivided attention. He did a slide show presentation, showed us a video clip him and his team, and was eager to answer any questions.

Following three days of fighting, Haber and his unit cleared the village, resulting in the deaths of over 100 Hamas fighters. During their searches, weapons, cell phones of hostages left behind were discovered inside school and mosques as well as books about the Nazis. Though, he didn’t witness humanitarian relief being caravanned into Gaza, he did say that under international law the area must be declared a war zone. That said, he did witness the dropping of leaflets in Gaza, warning residents that any place suspected of hiding places for Hamas terrorists would be bombed and warned Palestinians to evacuate. He spoke about the painstaking method of engaging Hamas, who had no qualms in shooting civilians attempting to evacuate. The IDF has to evacuate most of them before entering any homes.

He showed us a map of Gaza and Israeli border, and pointed to Khan Yunis, the second largest urban area, after Gaza City, the Gaza Strip, notably the home of 55 year Yahya Sinwar, second most powerful member of Hamas after billionaire Haniyeh, who refuses any kind of compromise with Israel. He has made it known he would rather die a martyr.

According to Pew Research Center published on March 21, 89% of U.S. Jews say Israel’s reason for launching a war against Hamas are justified, compared to 58% of Americans overall. 68% of American Muslims said Israel’s conduct in the war was unacceptable.

According to "Hamas-run" Gaza health ministry, more than 31,000 Palestinians have been killed in the war. However, Israel says more than a third of those are combatants and blames Hamas’ hostage taking terrorists for embedding themselves in civilian populations and using their own people as human shields.

When someone asked where does he see the war going, he said his personal opinion is that if there are still hostages in Gaza, it's their duty to free them. They can’t back down. It’s war, and they try their best to avoid civlian casualties. If Hamas releases the hostages, there is room to back down.

Before heading home, Cecile and I thanked Yonathan for his presentation and wished him well, and gave him some cash, as did a few others to continue educating people as to what’s going on behind the scenes.

The Eclipse: Thanks to A Professional Photographer We Saw the Light but Missed the Dark & the Cultural Myths of the Ancients

Bill asked if I wanted to go the Vasona Lake Reservoir on the Los Gatos Creek Trail and I said I was all in. While we didn’t achieve “Totality,” thanks to a thoughtful and kind photographer we met on the way he invited us a see a filtered view of a partial eclipse at around 10:30 AM PST through his camera—set to the proper coordinents—on his tripod. We also got do a 13-mile ride to boot, stopping to see the reservoir that had been totally drained for repairs that made it look Apocalyptic, though the water is slowly being filled to capacity.

While we had a little taste of the eclipse, Bill’s sun Clark who lives in Austin, TX sent him a short video clip of the eclipse that he experienced from his vantage point (see attached).

According to the New York Times, Thales, a Greek philosopher 2,600 years ago, is celebrated for predicting a famous solar eclipse, and in the process discovered what came to be known as the science.

During this same time period an eclipse stopped the a six-year war between the Lydians, and what followed was a peace treaty that was quickly signed.

Humans have always seen solar eclipse as bad omens. For example the Inca civilization (Sun worshipers) believed it was due to the wrath of God. The solution: Human sacrifices.

In Hindu mythology, it was said that a cunning demon disguised in women’s clothing invaded a banquet to drink the nectar of the gods and achieve the state of immortality but was caught and beheaded. The decapitated demon’s head floated across the sky and steered the sun. The ancient Chinese blue celestial dragons were said to be devouring the sun like little Pac-Man. They believed the only way to save it they created a ruckus by banging their drums and yelling at it.

Parting Shots of Carmel: One of the most Romantic Coastal Getaways

The quaint little village of Carmel-by-the-Sea oozes European charm and is one of the most romantic coastal getaways. It is just one square mile, and Ocean Avenue is the main street that runs From Highway One through the village all the way down to Carmel Beach with stunning coastal views, long sandy beaches, fringed with cypresses.

One of the places to visit in the Carmel Mission which is a National Historic Landmark. Established in 1771, it was the second of the missions built in California by Spanish missionaries led by Father Junipero Serra, who is buried here.

Lined with picturesque shops, galleries, cafe’s, restaurants, Ocean Avenue is a must-stroll. Cecile and I had lunch the Carmel Bakery (same owner of Pepe’s Vesuvio Restaurant) along with the best soft pretzels we have ever tasted. There is also the charming Cottage of Sweets, which has British-style candies and other chocolate and candy treats. Other Carmel Fairytale Cottages dating back to the early 1900s, feature high pitched roofs with moss, stone chimneys, and timbered details. We loved Carmel Plaza for its one of a kind boutiques and shops. In front of Kate Spade is a whimsical sculpture of a man wearing a hat, with his palm out called “Rain” by Richard Macdonald.

One of the charming features of Carmel are its numerous “secret” passageways dating back to the 1920 as seen in my photos. Many are lined with stores, galleries, tasting rooms, and eateries. There murals like the shell murals at Paloma Furnishing in Carmel. Ocean Avenue isn’t the only place to stroll. There are an abundant of side streets lined with interesting shops worth seeing. We rested at Devendorf Park named after Frank Devendorf, known as the father of Carmel-By-the-Sea. This well-maintained oasis is shaded by several massive live oaks.

Dinner at Pepe’s Vesuvio in Carmel-By-The-Sea whose Owner Grew Up in Hoboken NJ Just Like Your’s Truly

Rich Pepe calls himself a "baker by trade and a chef by passion.”

Back in the day he worked in a family bakery with his older brother and sister. He moved from NJ to the Monterey Peninsula in 1974, a year before Cecile and I moved to San Jose.

Vesuvio is named for the volcano that gates the Amalfi Coast, an area I spent some time in during my youth and early adulthood staying with my late mother Maria'’s friend Rosa and husband Mimi in their villa that overlooks the very same coastline. Mimi was also a baker (pastry chef).

Experiencing Italian Cuisine through the lens of Pepe and his family, who came from Naples, through Ellis Island before world war 1, and settled in Hoboken and Cliffside Park New Jersey was a real treat.

There was no mistaken that Vesuvio was the “real deal,” an authentic Southern Italian restaurant including a Napolitano wood baking pizza oven, that loyal patrons helped turn into a thriving enterprise. The Pepe family also owns the historic Carmel Bakery and other restaurants nearby.

Cecile and I shared Spring Bruschetta: Grilled Carmel Bakery sourdough, stracciatella, peas, asparagus, lemon zest & arugula;

Di Stefano: Crispy goat cheese, roasted beets, mixed greens, fig-balsamic vinaigrette, and split the entree: Al Forno ‘Sinatra:' Baked rigatoni, house sausage, mushrooms, goat cheese, mozzarella, pangratatto. And why not name it after Sinatra? It is Hoboken’s favorite son, now, and forever.

Buon Appetito! Or, as Rich Pepe would say, “Alla Salute!

Dinner at Nicolas Cocina de Herencia in Carmel-by-the-Sea Where Cecile and I are Staying for the Easter Day Weekend

Dinner at Nicolas Cocina de Herencia in Carmel-by-the-Sea Where Cecile and I are Staying for the Easter Day Weekend

The 2 1/2-hour ride from our home in Los Gato near San Jose to Carmel was a bit treacherous. It was pouring rain all the way. We settled into the Carriage House Inn one block south of Ocean Avenue, an intimate getaway in the heart of Carmel. After getting settled in and listening to the soothing music of Gaelic Heart by Michael Atkinson on our room TV, we enjoyed complimentary wine and cheese and other appetizers in the lobby.

We then walked around the corner to Nicolas Cocina de Herencia in Carmel Plaza. While the hostess grabbed the menus I stood in awe of a stunning statue of the Blessed Virgin Mary behind the counter, a reminder of my Catholic heritage, and on Good Friday no less. I asked our waiter Carlos about the statue and he said one of the owners was a devout Catholic and that there is a story behind how it was commissioned and shipped to Carmel..

Speaking of heritage, the word Herencia means “heritage” and it’s always been a vital ingredient at Nicolas Cocina. Susan Alvarez and her family combines traditional Mexican recipes with an artistic flair for technique and presentation. The family restaurant is an homage to Nicolas, the family’s patriarch. The heritage kitchen celebrates three generations of family recipes, specializing in Michoacán dishes as well as other Mexican favorites.

Cecile and I had Guacamole and chips and for our entrees Cecile enjoyed Maitake Birria: Maitake mushrooms, chile guajillo marinade, rice, beans, onion, cilantro, tomatillo salsa, handmade and hand-made corn tortillas. I had Axiote Mole: Pan seared halibut, tangy mole, grilled pineapple, lime charred avocado salad, rice and hand-made tortillas.

Brunch at Izzy’s Brooklyn Bagels in Palo Alto with Brooklyn-Born Rabbi Mendel Weinfeld Who Overcame a "Trial by Fire”

“When we focus on the present moment and appreciate the beauty around us, life becomes infinitely more meaningful.” —Menachem Mendel Schneerson

I am 47 years older than my young 26-year-old rabbi friend, Mendel Weinfeld, and though I’m not Jewish, I see him as a kindred spirit on spiritual level and am impressed with his optimism and how he overcame adversity. My wife Cecile—who "is Jewish" and I have been a guest at his and his wife’s Mussi’s home for Shabbat dinner, and we have attended some of the Jewish events at Chabad House and Almaden Winery Park. Mendel grew up in Brooklyn, NY., and I grew up across the Hudson River in Hoboken, NJ., which reminds me of Brooklyn Heights.

When we say things like a "Trial by Fire," we’re talking about a test of someone’s abilities to perform under massive pressure. The term is usually applied to situations where the challenge is so severe, but the outcome clearly measures the person’s character and determination. Such was the case with Weinfeld, a rabbinical scholar who studied in Canada, France, and Israel. He and his wife Mussi moved from New York to San Jose in January 2020, to begin their outreach program. That led to the opening of an Orthodox Jewish synagogue and community center with his wife when tragedy beset them and the Jewish Community.

It was early Wednesday Morning, December 23, 2021 when a devastating fire destroyed the Chabad House-Almaden, a synagogue in south San Jose four months after its grand opening. They had done extensive renovations and had just celebrated Hanukkah when the fire left the members of his community without a home. But, thanks to first responders from San Jose Fire Dept., and Jacob Cohen, a community member who alerted them, the sacred Torah Scrolls survived the raging fire. Some called it a miracle.

In the aftermath of this tragedy there was an overwhelming groundswell of support. Over 3500 people contributed for the new site and the young rabbi and his team launched a capital campaign “Rise from the Ashes" that allowed him to relocate the Jewish community to a site near Westfield Oakridge Mall which is double the capacity of the previous location. This was all reported in the Mercury News, and Cecile and I decided to make a modest donation and later doubled it. Some of the larger donations came from Silicon Valley billionaire Chris Larsen, co-founder of technology company, Ripple, and the Consul General of Azerbaijan in LA, who had close diplomatic ties with Israel since 1992.

Rabbi Mendel Weinfeld is the leader of Chabad House-Almaden, an Orthodox Jewish group founded in the late 1700s. It is known for its outreach efforts toward both religious and non-religious Jews, with more than 3,500 centers around the world. The late Menachem Mendel Schneerson is Weinfeld’s Rebbe (teacher)

Postscript: On Sunday, March 24th at 4:PM, Chabad of Almaden celebrates an Israeli-themed Purim with Israeli food Tel Aviv-Style and wine tasting of Israeli wines from the Galilee, fresh squeezed orange juice Jaffa-style, photo booth, and an open bar for adults. Come dressed in your favorite costume.

Computer Classroom In Kenya in Memory of My Niece Selina McAllister Gets Rave Reviews from Students & Teachers

“This amazing beloved project has lowered student absenteeism, boosted moral for students and staff, lifted self-esteem, and made our community proud,”

—Noel Olweny and the Masogo Community

A Progress Report by Dennis Augustine on behalf of the McAllister Family:

Grief opens our hearts to empathy and compassion, guiding us to give generously in honor of those we’ve loved and lost. Through the tears of grief, we discover the profound healing power of giving, and keeping alive the spirit of those we hold dear.

Since the tragic loss of my dear niece and goddaughter Selina on her daughter Zaila’s 13 th birthday, December 28, 2023, my brother-in-law Joe and family provided the funding to launch the Selina McAllister Computer Classroom in loving memory of his and my sister Josie's daughter approximately six weeks after she was laid to rest. Why Kenya? In 2006, when he, my late brother Michael, and I went to Kenya on a camera safari, we met a young man named Noel Olweny, a young guide at the Kenya Safari Club. Joe stayed in touch with Noel, and returned to Kenya with Selina the following year—as a gift for her graduation. Joe became a mentor and good friend to Noel and offered to help fund his post-graduate education in Land Management. As the years went by, Noel became a respected leader in the Masogo community. He currently serves on the County Assembly Service Board of Kisumu. Joe continued to fund some projects to help Noel's community, including preserving the natural habitat in the area.

Inspired by what Joe had accomplished and wanting to participate in honoring my niece, Cecile and I decided to provide funding to further advance the completion and modernization of Selina’s Computer Classroom and other related needs for the children and community. Upon receipt of our donation, Noel wrote, “Thank you for your kind open hearts that will positively impact the students and wider Masogo community.”

By helping to provide 40 Chromebook laptop computers to secondary-grade students, Joe’s generous and heartwarming efforts will not only give them access to technology and educational resources but also honors the memory of Selina. It's a powerful example of turning personal tragedy and grief into a force for good and promoting education as a pathway to personal growth and future opportunities. Joe also arranged with a third party to have 80 Jerseys shipped to Masogo for the girls and boys soccer team in time for the inter-school competition that will take place in the second term.

As you observe these photos and the students two short “thank you videos" sent to us by Noel, you’ll see enthusiastic and joyful children, express their gratitude. On some level, they understand the power of pencils, books, and computers. Noel, Joe, and I know all too well that getting an education with these new resources will change their lives and allow them to lift themselves up out of poverty.

For those who missed it, here is the link to my original story dated February 20, 2024:

https://enjoyyourlifenow.net/.../computer-classroom...

A Delicious Dinner with Kim & Al Chien at Los Gatos Parkside Restaurant at the Town Plaza

“A restaurant is a fantasy—a kind of living fantasy in which diners are the most important members of the cast.”—Warner LeRoy

Since Cecile and I arrived early, we took the liberty to order some shared appetizers that included Cheese & Charcuterie Plate with the chef’s selection of two meats, two cheeses, fruit compote, nuts, truffle honey and a warm baguette; and, Hushpuppies with corn, cheddar, scallions, bell pepper, maple sriracha butter, and cilantro. For Cecile and I, this was the second time we had the very attentive Bryce as our waiter.

Executive Chef Noe Briseno and team at Parkside bring their passion for sustainable sourced ingredients to create a menu that showcases the seasonal bounties of the South Bay. Their mission statement is to provide fresh, organic and locally grown ingredients when available. Their award-winning bar is known for their seasonal craft cocktails. Cecile, Kim and Al ordered cocktails and I ordered a Hazy IPA draft beer to accompany our shared dishes.

For our entrees, Kim ordered a crab dish from the special menu and Al had Cioppino. Cecile had Seared Scallops and Risotto with shave Brussels sprouts, grape tomatoes, with creamy lobster sauce. I had a Grilled Pork Chop with sweet potatoes puree, sautéed spinach, and apple-onion compote. Everyone enjoyed the generous portions of their dishes, and we decided to pass on dessert.

Postscript: Though we have been guests of Kim and Al’s at their home on many family occasions including holidays over the years with our kids and grandkids, it was a pleasure to have them all to ourselves for a relaxing dinner at one of the best restaurants in the foodie haven of Los Gatos.

Leprechaun Approved St. Patrick’s Day Fun & Dinner at Kim & Al Chien's Home

Kim and Al hosted a very festive and fun St. Paddy’s Day dinner at their lovely home again this year. We had the traditional corned beef, as the main dish that was so delicious and so tender you could cut it with a spoon. Our daughter Michelle and husband Kyle, arrived with our granddaughters Lyla and Emmy, and it was our grandson baby August's (nickname Gus) first St. Paddy’s Day. All of the adults got a chance to embrace this little bundle of joy.

Before dinner Kim and I took turns pushing the girls on the swing set play structure in the back yard. Kyle’s brother Chip arrived with his girlfriend Julie. After dinner we were entertained by watching the girls roughhouse with their uncle Chip and Kyle. Experts say that boisterous, physical play is ingrained in kid's DNA. It develops their vestibular, auditory and visual systems. The end result is a child who is more coordinated, athletic, resilient, smart, and socially-adept. Kyle and I came to the same conclusion that it looked like a kids version of a World Wide Wrestling (WWE) match.

And now a poem for the occasion called:

"Everybody is Irish on St. Paddy’s Day”

On this special Day, the world turns green,

From Dublin’s Streets to shores unseen.

For on this day, we all unite, in Irish spirit shining bright.

From east to west, and far and wide.

The Emerald isle is our guide.

With laughter, music, cheers and beers,

We’re all Irish, this time of year.

So raise a pint and share a song,

In Irish hearts, we all belong.

For on St. Paddy’s Day, it’s clear to see,

The Irish spirit lives in you and me.

Cecile and I hope that everyone had a wonderful, spirited Happy St. Paddy’s Day Weekend

Dinner with Friends at the Vintage "Wine Cellar Restaurant" in Los Gatos

“Good friends, great food and wine, and memorable moments are the perfect recipe for a truly exceptional dining experience."

Cecile and I had dinner with good friends and travel companions, Susie and Nelson Bye, at the Wine Cellar restaurant. Nestled at the base of the Santa Cruz Mountains in historic Old Town in Los Gatos, CA., this has been a favorite since 1966. With its dim lighting and rustic decor including warm, golden washed walls and candle-lit booths it offers an intimate, cozy, and relaxed ambiance for its patrons. The extensive menu features a diverse selection of dishes, with the focus on fresh, locally sourced ingredients.

Nelson and I enjoyed a draft 805 beer and Susie had a Lemon Drop cocktail while we waited for our starters. Susie had a Caesar’s Salad and Nelson had a French Onion Soup, while Cecile and I shared a Roasted warm Beet and Goat Cheese Salad with baby spinach tossed in sherry vinaigrette, and toasted hazelnuts.

For our entrees, Susie had Hungarian Goulash with tender beef, mushrooms, carrots, Spanish onions simmered in white wine paprika Demi grace and served over buttered noodles with sour cream garnish. Nelson had a Bistro Steak with Sautéed crimini mushrooms, Spanish onions and green peppercorns flamed in sherry, finished in Demi glace, smashed Yukon gold potatoes and veggies. Cecile and a Soy Glazed Grilled Salmon with baby bok choy, ginger beurre blanc & wasabi drizzle, and I had Zinfandel Braised Short Ribs with mashed potatoes and veggies.

Though a wine theme prevails throughout the interior, and an extensive wine list that features over 100 selections from around the world, Nelson brought a bottle of our favorite Chappllet Cabernet Sauvignon from his home wine collection to accompany our meal. Our meals were extraordinarily delicious, and our waiter Tim, was attentive and friendly, making for a memorable dining experience.

We were sufficiently satisfied with the generous portions and passed on dessert.